Uluru: Gratitudes & Farewells at the Red Centre by Kate Brunner

Fearless LoveIt is one of the challenges of choosing this migrant expatriate life to be dependent upon the current job and the willingness of your host country to give you a temporary home. When the job ends and the host country terminates your work visa, it’s time to move on– sometimes without much notice. As our abrupt departure from Australia marches steadily closer, I am reflecting on lessons and experiences my heart carries within me from this place into a new, as yet unknown, chapter of my life.

Over the last three years, our family traveled a great deal all over the eastern half of Australia in Queensland, New South Wales and the ACT. But before we left, my husband and I felt we needed to make one last Australian pilgrimage together- just the two of us- to the Red Centre. All I knew was that I felt a powerful pull to visit Uluru before returning to the US. What I experienced became an emotional farewell ritual to this Country that will always have a place in my heart.

When we left Brisbane, the land beneath us was wooded and well-ordered with countless rooftops marking the dimensions of (sub)urban life. Eventually, suburbs began to give way to farm land parceled out at sharp angles– rectilinear industrial-scale food production essential to sustaining all those rooftops. And then, slowly those stark corners began to soften and fade as the land reclaimed its indigenous magic; green transmuted into gold, gold burning into a thousand shades of scarlet and burnt orange.

Salt flats between Alice Springs & Uluru Photo by K. Brunner
Salt flats between Alice Springs & Uluru
Photo by K. Brunner

Watching this transformation from the plane window, I felt how the same shifts have happened within me over the last three years- softening my edges, teaching me to reclaim my true magic. I could see square give way to circle, line yielding to curve. Roads ended and only the paths of the old ways remained. Even as I knew the harsh reality of the hot, arid landscape below me, still from that aerial perspective, I felt that softening spiraling through my bloodstream as I witnessed its passing from above. Spread below me were the curves, the dots, the symbols, the distinctive patches of color found in Indigenous Australian art. Human hands invoked those energies through artistic ritual thousands of years before even the slightest notion of mechanical air travel was born. Those human hands somehow understood the essence of this land so well that they could paint an aerial picture of it thousands of years before our invention of air travel or cameras. The land is the art is the spirit- Country is Law. This is a gift Australia gave me, the ability to see this; to bear witness to the artistry of Land and its Spirits of Place.

Modern tourism at Uluru has a turbulent history. Renamed Ayers Rock in the 19th century by the English-Australian surveyor who sighted it while exploring the area, Uluru became a popular non-indigenous tourist destination from the 1940s. Not surprisingly, damage to local ecology & indigenous culture ensued. When the land was returned to the Traditional Owners in 1985, efforts were finally underway to mitigate that damage and manage the impact of future visitors, but vestiges of colonialist imperialism remain. This was most evident to me in “The Climb”.

Uluru Climb 1Uluru Climb 2

Signage at the base of Uluru at the entrance to “The Climb” explains the historical Western perspective of conquering “The Climb,” side by side with the basics of Tjukurpa that govern the Anangu request for visitors to forgo climbing. One portion of the sign reads:

Challenge your perspective

Is it right to continue, knowing what we know today?
Is this a place to conquer – or a place to connect with?

We invite you to open your hearts and minds to the power of this landscape and the mysterious Tjukurpa.

This place has a story…come on a journey.

As I let that message sink in, I acknowledged another lesson I am grateful for from this experience. Needless to say, we did not climb. We chose the ten kilometer Base Walk that circumnavigates the formation and were rewarded with a deep understanding of the detailed essence of Uluru for our efforts. Every fold, every channel, waterhole, cave and crevasse has teachings to share with those who will listen.

Over the last three years, I’ve been privileged enough to visit seven countries, including Australia, and to meet people from every inhabited continent in this world. Like the intimate details of Uluru, each person and place has somehow challenged my perspective and taken me on a journey. Each of them somehow asked me to open myself further. Each exchange asked me how I will continue, knowing what I now know today. My last journey for this chapter of my life, a pilgrimage to Uluru, allowed me the perfect energy of place to express my gratitude for these and many more lessons and to say my farewells to the Country that taught me so much and treated me so well.

One of my favorite moments came just after a brilliant Outback sunset. It is true Uluru glows a stunning shade of red just as the Sun departs the evening sky. But after that, when most folks jump in their cars and head off for a feed, something magical happens. The Earth has turned. The Sun is off to warm the other side of the world for a bit. And the Land here breathes a deep sigh. And everything softens.

Uluru just after sunset Photo by K. Brunner
Uluru just after sunset
Photo by K. Brunner

Within our first year here, I began to tell people who asked me how this experience was going, that Australia is a place that makes you come face to face with your fear. Now, as I prepare to depart, I would add so much more to that. It is not about conquering that fear. It is about learning to love it. To love a sunburnt country, you must learn to love your Shadow. You must bear witness to and fully inhabit your beauty and your terror. It is a lesson thousands of years in the making. Try as you might, you cannot come here to conquer and consume. If you try, you will never see the wealth of opportunities to yield, and by yielding,-by softening- to know. To know new things and ancient things, other and self, earth and sky. And to leave changed in the best of ways.

All I can say now is palya.


Kate Brunner is a writer, healer, ritualist, & member of The Sisterhood of Avalon, studying at the Avalonian Thealogical Seminary. She is an American expat, living in Queensland, Australia and homeschooling her children, with the world as their classroom. Before motherhood, Kate earned a Bachelor of Arts from Tulane University, while studying Economics, International Relations, & Religion. She served four years as a logistics officer in the US Army, after which, Kate became a doula and holistic birth educator. She is a regular contributor to The Sisterhood of Avalon’s online journal, The Tor Stone and is active in the Red Tent Movement. Kate volunteered in Houston as a presenter for monthly Red Tents and semi-annual women’s retreats before relocating overseas. In Australia, she hosts seasonal women’s gatherings, facilitates labyrinth rituals, and is in the process of establishing a Sisterhood of Avalon Novice Hearth.

Author: Kate M. Brunner

Kate M. Brunner is a writer, healer, ritualist, & member of The Sisterhood of Avalon. She is a resident of Heartwood Cohousing & a homeschooling mother of three. She holds a BA from Tulane University, where she studied Economics, International Relations, & Religious Traditions. Kate hosts seasonal women’s gatherings, priestesses labyrinth rituals, and facilitates workshops on an assortment of women’s spirituality topics. During 2017, she will present at the SOA’s annual online conference, AvaCon, & at the second annual Ninefold Festival in Colorado. She is also published in Flower Face: A Devotional Anthology in Honor of Blodeuwedd and The Goddess in America: The Divine Feminine in Cultural Context.

11 thoughts on “Uluru: Gratitudes & Farewells at the Red Centre by Kate Brunner”

  1. What a beautiful invocation and tribute to the power of place and connection. May your sorrow at parting be sweet and your next landing be happy.


  2. Very interesting, and thanks for the link to the Australian languages. I’m glad you didn’t climb on that huge, sacred rock. It’s awesome even in photos. Do you know yet where your next landing will be?


    1. Less and less people are climbing. There is even a “Did Not Climb” register at the Cultural Centre one can sign when visiting. Hopefully, the Traditional Owners will be able to close The Climb sooner rather than later. We are returning to the US for now, but where we will settle for the next few years isn’t sorted yet. Just putting one foot in front of the other right now, waiting for the path to be made more clear.


  3. I have travelled in the Australian desert many times and it is an extraordinary place. It inspired me to write my novel, ‘The Falling Woman’, which follows two women who drive into the centre of the country (and themselves), through history and religion, confronting fears and experiencing awe.

    I wish I had more lives because I would begin learning Australia’s indigenous languages. I know only a very little Warlpiri which I learnt while I was writing my novel. If it interests you you can find more information here: http://www.spinifexpress.com.au/Bookstore/book/id=64/


  4. Connecting with, rather than conquering, is such a important attitude. I was going to add: “In our time” but we got to this place of disrespect for creation through other times. We need healing, for our own spirits and for creation. And they are one. Your journey and sharing help us along the path.


  5. Our land is opal-hearted…….

    Above the child the cliffs of the years tower.
    He dares not stop to play, he must climb higher.
    The rotting ladders sway beneath his weight
    and the winds rise and cry and storm comes nearer.
    Oh, passionate gazer, oh enraptured hearer,
    oh eager climber, perhaps you climb too late.

    Perhaps from the stone peak worn down and trodde
    by worshipping generations, the view is hidden.
    Nothing but thundering storm and blowing mist
    will greet you; and the night will come to blind you
    and the last ladder crumble and break behind you –
    oh wait, my darling. The world you seek is lost.

    Even if the cloud parted and in the dying
    light of evening you saw that landscape lying,
    you would see a paper map, a country of lost hopes;
    seas scrawled by a million courses, ink-dried rivers,
    and deserts littered with the bones of the world’s lovers.
    Turn back, my darling. Play for ever on these gentle slopes.

    —-“You do not know. You cannot hear the call,
    nor see the face that leans from the cliff-wall.
    You must not hold me, though you speak in kindness.
    There waits, hidden beyond the known and charted,
    World, the secret one, the flower-hearted –
    her terrible innocence the measure of your blindness.”

    ~Dialogue, Judith Wright

    To really make tracks with one’s shadow in Australia, you need camels and
    a lot of guts.

    Goodbye girlie!


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