Collective Joy as Our Birthright by Mary Gelfand

One of two pieces on Joy, part 2 tomorrow.

Joy was not a conspicuous presence in my childhood home.  My parents were kind and loving, but both had been raised in the Protestant conservatism of rural Alabama during the Depression years.  Laughter, contemporary music, dancing, drinking—none of these were part of my growing up years.  Attending church was our primary social activity.   I started middle school in the mid-1960s having never heard of the Beatles, Chubby Checker, or the Twist. 

2000 year old cave art from Borneo

Instinctively, I felt that there must be more to religious experiences than the dull passivity of listening to an old white man lecture on details of an antiquated religious text.  Psalm 100 in the Hebrew Bible instructs us to “Make a joyful noise unto the Lord,” but I couldn’t find joy anywhere in my home church.  Even my relationship with Jesus, which felt sacred and special, was dimmed by the constant focus on Jesus’ suffering and death and my concurrent obligation to avoid sin at all costs.

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