Encountering Spirit: A Ritual of Blessing for an Abortion Clinic by Katey Zeh


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For the last year I have had the honor of serving as Chair of the Board of Directors for the Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice (RCRC). This leadership role often requires great personal and professional sacrifices and yet blesses me tenfold in return. At this moment in history I can think of no more important organization to offer my time and gifts than on behalf of RCRC.

Last week RCRC partnered with Planned Parenthood of Metropolitan Washington (PPMW) to hold an Interfaith Unity Ceremony to honor their brand new health center in southeast D.C. I had the privilege of joining more than sixty clergy, justice leaders, and clinic staff as were led by the Reverend Doctors Dennis and Christine Wiley, co-pastors of the Covenant Baptist United Church of Christ, through an interfaith service of blessing. There was drumming from the all female percussion band Balatá, testimonies from providers and patients, poetry, liturgical dance, a Hindu chant, and a ritual of healing from the shame and stigma surrounding abortion.


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At one point during the service a colleague of mine turned to me and whispered, “I’ve got goose bumps. Something is happening here, isn’t it?” I said, “Yes, Spirit is here.”

Many might find an encounter with the sacred at a Planned Parenthood surprising to say the least. It might have been for me had I not experienced something quite similar ten years ago. At the time I was a seminary student at Yale, and I had recently participated in RCRC’s pastoral care training on how to walk alongside women making decisions about their unplanned pregnancies. Before I offered any kind of counseling I wanted to see for myself what went on in abortion clinic. After taking a tour of the local Planned Parenthood health center I was so moved by the love and kindness of the doctors and support staff that I decided to volunteer on days when abortions were provided. Through that experience I felt the holy nudge to dedicate my ministry to supporting the work of abortion providers like Planned Parenthood and standing up for the rights and dignity of those who need access to safe, legal abortion care.

Now, almost a decade later, I found myself back in a health center. That time of being amongst my people, surrounded by words and sounds of truth affirming the sacred decisions of women about their bodies and lives, felt like I had tasted my first bite of food after a long, difficult fast. I didn’t realize how much over these last few months I had been starving for hope, love, and life-giving energy until that ritual of blessing held within the walls of the Planned Parenthood health center.


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Later that night on my drive back to the airport I found myself repeating the same simple prayer, “Thank you, thank you, thank you.” I felt an overwhelming sense of gratitude for the way that ritual had restored my spirit and affirmed my call to ministry. For the first time I felt prepared to take on the heavy burden of the next four years. I am ready. Are you?

Katey Zeh, M.Div is a thought leader, strategist, and connector who inspires intentionalKatey Headshot communities to create a more just, compassionate world through building connection, sacred truth telling, and striving for the common good.  She has written for outlets including Huffington Post, Sojourners, Religion Dispatches, Response magazine, the Good Mother Project, the Journal for Feminist Studies in Religion, and the United Methodist News Service. Her book Women Rising will be published by the FAR Press in 2017.  Find her on Twitter at @kateyzeh or on her website kateyzeh.com




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10 replies

  1. This is so moving Katey. I wish I could have been there too. Women’s Health Care Centers and yes, Abortion Clinics, are our “homes.” And like our homes, they should be and can be blessed! I love this so much because the rituals tell us that our choices are sacred and our bodies are sacred. Abortion should not as it sometimes is even among feminists be seen as something that though necessary is not really good. But in our world, abortion can be good–good for the woman and good for the larger community! Choosing and performing abortion can be a holy act. Yesssss!!!!! Thank you soooo much.

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  2. Just looked your group up on the internet. Is it primarily a Christian-Jewish coalition (with one RC member group?)? Have there been any discussions of opening to other religions. What about Goddess feminists? Among others?


    • Hi Carol! Thank you for your questions. We have recently been having a lot of conversation about the need to be truly interfaith and reflect the diversity of religious people who support reproductive decision making. I would love to be in touch with you about people and/or groups you think would like to get involved. Let’s put our brains together!


  3. Good luck (and good health) to you all!!!


  4. Hi Katey, I appreciate your caring tone and availability to be a chaplain for women with unplanned pregnancies. I have no doubt you are the right person to offer your time and gifts for healing from the shame and stigma of abortion. I couldn’t help wonder if it is paradox, or if it is contradiction that you had been “starving for… life-giving energy until that ritual of blessing…” I don’t doubt your experience, but it is odd isn’t it that this life-giving energy appears to be at the expense of taking life – especially lives of pre-born girls, since female gendercide is involved in so many abortions. Though I don’t agree that “performing abortion can be a holy act” – may you continue to minister grace and wisdom. Sincerely.


  5. I had no idea that the RCRC existed. Thank you for talking about it. Will definitely research it. I’ve been struggling with my pro-choice views lately, in terms of how it relates to my religious views and it sounds like the RCRC would be a good place to start.



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