The Healing Spirit of Sacred Play by Carolyn Lee Boyd

Many years ago I participated in seasonal, Goddess-focused celebrations featuring handmade decorations, including some by enormously talented artists who attended.  One year, our spring fete was graced with gorgeous paintings, intricately woven and colorful fabric art, sensuous sculptures, and exquisitely painted eggs. I brought a Peeps diorama depicting the reunion of Demeter and Persephone.  (For anyone wondering, Peeps are brightly colored marshmallows in the shape of bunnies, chicks and other shapes and are sometimes made into dioramas for contests in schools and libraries.) The reason I brought the diorama was partly because, though my own artistic talent is somewhere between extremely questionable and non-existent, I thought people might enjoy a little bit of whimsy to honor spring’s exuberance. In addition, however, I was  also going through a time of great personal and professional stress and my soul deeply needed to be creative with just a little outrageous fun. 

Demeter and Persephone diorama

To recap the story, Persephone had been abducted by Hades and taken to the Underworld. Her mother, Demeter, made the Earth barren until the gods agreed to Persephone’s release. Demeter is the purple Peep and Persephone is yellow, and they are about to be reunited. Hades is pinkly enraged as he stands at the gateway to Hades. Gummi bears are romping while green humans dance in a circle. Snow is on the trees to show that winter is giving way to spring as Demeter returns abundance to the world.

Ostara diorama

This year, for the first time since then, I had the impulse to make another springtime diorama, this time illustrating another joyful story, that of the Germanic goddess Ostara.  In the version of her story we used to tell at our spring celebrations, Ostara is cheerfully gamboling in the forest when she encounters a rabbit being chased by a predator. The rabbit begs for Ostara help and so she transforms the rabbit into a bird so she can fly away.  During the moment when the rabbit is just turning into a colorful bird but is yet still a rabbit, she lays many-hued eggs.  And, in gratitude for Ostara’s act of kindness, every year the birds of the forest lay beautifully decorated eggs for Ostara’s enjoyment.

As I thought about why I wanted to make my Peeps spring diorama this year and not so much in others, I realized that creative, light-hearted play is an essential form of sacred healing, much needed after recent traumatic and loss-filled times for our whole planet.  Playful creativity affirms that, no matter what tragedy and trauma we have experienced, life is hopeful, the Earth is beautiful, and that we will not let our spirits be defeated. It is our message to ourselves that we are, in our most profound being, still in essence who we were in times when we may have felt more easily connected to the animating life-force that flows through the universe, no matter what name we call it or how we conceive of it.

Sacred play, especially in the form of artistic expression, is transformative and empowering. By engaging in it we refuse to accept the status quo or others’ determinations of who we should be and what we should do. Creative exuberance as a way towards social justice brings to mind Joy to the Polls, a movement this past fall to bring music and dancing to people standing in line for hours to vote or the beautiful art and music that has been so essential to the protests of the past few years, and, in fact movements against oppression from time immemorial.

The ancient goddesses also knew the importance of sacred play and laughter.  The Sumerian goddess Siduri advised Gilgamesh to “dance and play, night and day…make each day a festival of joy.” When Demeter is wandering the Earth in deep despair, she comes upon Iambe, who makes her smile with bawdy jokes, or, in other versions,  Baubo, who provokes Demeter’s laughter by showing her vulva.  Uzume brought the Japanese goddess Amaterasu out of her cave, to which she had retreated in disgusted rage after atrocities by her brother, with a comic dance exposing her body. All these actions link joy and playfulness to the source of life, just as being creative in a playful way does.  And I think that Iambe, Baubo, and Uzume all understood that creativity and humor can be even more effective when they are just a little outside expectations, like bringing Peeps dioramas to spring celebrations.

drumstick wand

Incorporating play into spiritual practice can, of course, also be more artistry-focused. Some months ago I realized that the tips of the drumsticks I had been using for years had been whittled down by overuse to sharp points. It was long past time for a new set.  At that time, the world seemed to be especially in need of a little magic, so I painted and decorated the old sticks to be magic wands. 

I’ve also been finding joy in composing and recording very short percussion pieces about some of my favorite goddess myths because music can sometimes express what words alone cannot. Here is one about Inanna’s descent to the Underworld and her re-emergence into the world.  Even though it is not a professional composition, I hope you enjoy it. You can even dance to it.

And so, I also hope I have inspired you to take some time in the coming days or weeks to find creativity and joy, and maybe a little sass, in your practice and your life. May we all heal and refresh from whatever we have each been through and reaffirm our hope for the future.

Carolyn Lee Boyd is a writer, student drummer, and herb and native plant gardener who lives in New England.  Her essays, short stories, memoirs, reviews, and poetry have been published in, among others, Feminism and Religion, Return to Mago E-Magazine, Sagewoman, The Goddess Pages, Matrifocus, and The Beltane Papers, and various anthologies. She would love for you to visit her at her website, where you can find some of her free e-books to download.


Patricia Monaghan, New Book of Goddesses and Heroines

Author: Carolyn Lee Boyd

Carolyn Lee Boyd’s essays, short stories, memoirs, reviews, and poetry have been published in a variety of print magazines, internet sites, and book anthologies. Her writing explores goddess-centered spirituality in everyday life and how we can all better live in local and global community. In fact, she is currently writing a book on what ancient and contemporary cultures have to tell us about living in community in the 21st century. She would love for you to visit her at her website,, where you can find her writings and music and some of her free e-books to download.

11 thoughts on “The Healing Spirit of Sacred Play by Carolyn Lee Boyd”

  1. This is infuriating – I just left a long comment that was rejected – again. Play is important – being in the adult all the time is where I am now – the child almost never gets out – by accident yesterday when i discovered a salamander and rescued him – I fell back into the child – what a relief – thanks for the post..

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    1. Thank you for your comment, Sara! I’m so sorry you lost your other comment! Yes, being in nature is one of the best ways to find ourselves back in play, I find. I think nature is essentially quite playful, especially when not stressed by humans – just look at all the colors in flowers, birds, and insects and the amazing shapes and beauty in things like the intricate structure of snowflakes even though generally no one sees it. Animals in the wild can sometimes be so playful, too.

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  2. Sacred play is indeed both fun and important. (That’s one reason I write such odd posts here sometimes.) Sacred play is good for us, especially in these days of pandemic and political idiocy. Hooray for you and the Peeps! I think your sacred dioramas (I just noticed the word has “god”–“dio” in it–I wonder if we could change it to “goddess,” “dia”–diarama) are terrific. And thanks for telling the stories to remind us where the Easter Bunny and the colored eggs really come from. How many Christians know those stories?

    Brava to your playfulness and all the good things you do. Brightest spring blessings to us all.

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  3. Carolyn I love your diaramas and this post! My mother taught me to be very playful. She was the one with the squirt guns, etc. and she hated it when summer was over and we had to go back to school. Now my mother, who is in her 80s, lives with me in Maine and we are both still playful. My half of the house is decorated with fairies and mermaids and Mom and I joke around a lot. We both have fairy villages outside, too. I never thought of play as sacred, though, so thank you so much for pointing it out.

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    1. What a wonderful way to keep a magical, playful environment – having fairies and mermaids and fairy villages outside! I tend to have a lot of fairy garden decorations but I hadn’t thought of whole villages! A fabulous idea!

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  4. I LOVE this post, Carolyn. I also love play, and sacred play the most. I’m playing creatively everyday right now, because I have a writing project that invites me to play. It fills me with joy and enthusiasm.

    The only thing I would add is that the Hindu gods and goddesses create the whole universe with their sacred play. It’s called lila inSanskrit (translated as play in English). So even the god/desses know the significance of play.

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    1. Thanks so much, Nancy! I’m excited to find out more about your project when it’s time! That’s great information about the Hindu gods and goddesses – I hadn’t known that! This sharing of information is one of the many wonderful things about FAR.


  5. This is great Carolyn, thank you. I had to laugh at your beginning when you wrote that your artistic talent is between “between extremely questionable and non-existent.” Me too. In fact, I struggle to draw a stick figure in proper proportions. BUT . . . Carolyn, your artistic bents clearly tends to writing, music, creativity, sacred fun so let’s embrace those.

    I love the mythic stories you shared. I didn’t know the Demeter one and as you point out it ties in to others all around the world. I find those so intriguing and fascinating. Oh and the colored eggs of Ostara. That is a terrific story! Thanks.

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    1. Thank you so much, Janet! I’m glad you enjoyed the stories. Our human heritage of stories, beyond the ones we all know in our 21st century, western civilization, is so rich and we are so lucky that they are once again being told, written about, and thought about.


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