Crowding into the Spirit World: Reclaiming a Metaphysics of Multiplicity by Jill Hammer

A number of years ago, I had the opportunity to take a class with Chava Weissler, a scholar at Lehigh University who studies Jewish history, community, and sacred practices– particularly those practices related to women.  My fellow students in the class were other rabbis, taking a break from their work in order to do some learning.  Dr. Weissler was teaching about an Ashkenazi Jewish women’s practice known as “soul candles”—the making of candles during the High Holiday season to honor the dead of the community as well as the mythic ancestors.  Candles for Abraham and Sarah were made alongside candles for grandparents and other deceased relatives, using wicks that had been laid out along the graves to take the “measure” of the dead.  During the making of the candles, the candlemakers would ask that these ancestors would pray for the living, just as the living prayed for the dead.  As Dr. Weissler described this practice, a nervous giggle passed through the room.

I remember being shocked.  I understand that my colleagues have varying beliefs around life after death and around spirit in general.  And, hearing my colleagues laugh at such a ritual and its attendant beliefs surprised me.  Those same colleagues would never laugh at the idea that God wrote the Torah (even if not all of them believe that) or at the idea that God answers prayers (even though I’m sure many of them struggle with that idea too).  But the belief in ancestors who could intercede on behalf of their relatives was alien enough to be funny.  This caused me to notice that the contemporary spirit world, for some Jews, is rather empty.  It contains an abstract God, and no one else.

Yet for our Jewish ancestors, the spirit world was far more multiple.  In the Bible, ancestors went to an underworld called She’ol.[1]  In the rabbinic era (3rd century CE) and beyond, there were souls who might be sitting under a tree in the Garden of Eden, resting in a storehouse under the Divine Throne,[2] or wandering the world in the form of a dybbuk, or a disembodied spirit looking for a body to possess.  It was even possible, according to kabbalists, to have an ibbur, a “pregnancy” in which the soul of an ancestor benignly shared space in someone’s body.[3]  In modern times, Susan Sered, an anthropologist of contemporary Jewish women’s practice, writes about how Yemenite and Kurdish Jewish women in Jerusalem would go to the cemetery daily to communicate with the ancestors.[4]  The novel The Dybbuk, by S. Ansky, mentions a bride visiting the cemetery to invite deceased parents to a wedding.

Angels and demons also walked the worlds.  Angels appeared in a variety of biblical stories, interacting with human beings.  In the Book of Enoch (circa 300 BCE) and in later Jewish literature, there were angels with a variety of complex names: Ilaniel watched over fruit trees, Raphael was in charge of healing, Metatron was the celestial scribe.  In the Talmudic era and beyond, demons abounded— the sage Abaye claimed that there were far more demons in the world than humans, so many that they rubbed against the sages’ clothing and wore them out.[5]  Stories told of rabbis outwitting demons who lived in abandoned synagogue. Women and children wore amulets against the demon Lilith who stole babies and the seed of sleeping men.[6] Genesis Rabbah, an ancient rabbinic collection of midrash, notes the existence of field spirits and house spirits, and wonders which of these two species is more benign and which is more dangerous.[7] The Zohar, a kabbalistic work of 13th century Spain, speaks of souls meeting in the graveyard on an autumn night during Sukkot. Isaac Luria, the great kabbalist of 16th century Sfat, would point out the spirits of ancestors as he walked with his followers through a graveyard, and Joseph Caro, the great scholar of Jewish law, regularly visited with an angel.[8]  Much more recently, Yiddish storytellers spoke of the shretele, the house-spirit who cared for the family, and the kapelyushnik, the cap-wearers (elves) who made mischief.[9]  Sephardic women’s practices also affirmed the existence of spirits, and Sephardic healing rituals propitiated these spirits via a process called “sweetening.”[10]

I have the sense that Jewish women of previous generations, who tended the home and the community, had a multiple and complex spirit world to negotiate.  Rituals like the making of soul candles, or the “sweetening of spirits,” were acknowledgements of this rich and multiple metaphysics. In other words, the spirit world of our mothers was not empty except for God.  It was quite crowded, in fact.  The Divine presided over an “otherworld” (in Yiddish, die yenne velt) that was complex and required attention and negotiation.

Where did all of these beings go?  The Enlightenment and the advent of scientific ways of knowing brought a shift for many Jews, particularly those who came to America and shed many beliefs and practices.  The theology of American Jews abandoned the multiplicity of the spirit world, retaining only the biggest figure in it (God)—and sometimes, not even that.

Yet to see the spirit world as a multiplicity may reflect a genuine experience of metaphysical reality as a community rather than a single entity.  This “community of being” is something we may feel as we walk through a forest or flip through a family album, or stand on an ancient site.  This sense of a multiple spirit world also reflects our sense of the many energies that impact us throughout a day and throughout our lives: the presence and feelings of those around us, the diversity of the natural world, and more.  While many of us are intimate with a deep oneness that we may call God or Spirit or Cosmos, the more personal and individual variations of the All are something we may also sense.

The Kohenet Hebrew Priestess Institute, which I co-founded, meets several times a year to train Jewish women in spiritual leadership practices.  At our most recent retreat, held at the Isabella Freedman Jewish Retreat Center, we discussed the spiritual practice of “guardianship”—shemirah, in Hebrew—watching over someone or something to provide spiritual protection.  This practice is done, for example, for the bodies of loved ones waiting to be buried, and it was also done for vulnerable newborns.[11] We connected the practice of guardianship to the Levites, who stood guard over the Temple with ritual weapons, and to the biblical figure of the gevirah, the queen mother who watches over vulnerable children until they are ready to come of age.  As we discussed the uses of ritual guardians, we began to also discuss how guardian practices reflected our ancestors’ sense of a spirit world populated by many beings of varying levels of benevolence.  It became clear that the whole idea of shemirah implied a multiple, rather than a singular, spirit world.

Several people in our circle spoke of the ways that this reflected their own sense of a world peopled by ancestors, spirits, and natural energies.  The ancestors had sensed a crowded spirit world, and a number of people in our circle could relate.

Earlier that week, as I was placing a ritual object my father (of blessed memory) had made for the use of the Kohenet community, a crow sat in a nearby tree, calling.  There had also been a crow on the day I went to view his body, and also crows came to his funeral.  For me, the crow in the tree was my father, making his presence known, watching over me as I did my work. As the crow cawed, I felt much less lonely. In that moment, I was grateful for the multiplicity of my spirit world.


Rabbi Jill Hammer, PhD, is the co-founder of the Kohenet Hebrew Priestess Institute ( and the Director of Spiritual Education at the Academy for Jewish Religion (  She is the author of essays, poems, rituals and stories, and of seven books including Sisters at Sinai: New Tales of Biblical Women, The Jewish Book of Days: A Companion for All Seasons, The Omer Calendar of Biblical Women, The Hebrew Priestess (with Taya Shere, 2015), and the new volume of poetry The Book of Earth and Other Mysteries (2016).


[1] Cf. Genesis 42:38; Job 26:5.

[2] Avot deRabbi Natan 12; Ecclesiastes Rabbah 3:18

[3] For examples of spirit possession in early modern Jewish communities, see J.H. Chajes, Between Worlds: dybbuks, Exorcists, and Early Modern Judaism (University of Pennsylvanis Press, 2011).  See also S. Ansky, The Dybbuk, and the following article on My Jewish Learning:

[4] Susan Sered, Women as Ritual Experts: The Religious Lives of Elderly Jewish Women in Jerusalem (Oxford University Press, 1992), p. 18-20.

[5] Babylonian Talmud, Berachot 6a


[7] Genesis Rabbah 20:11

[8] David Wolpe, “Dybbuks, demons, and exorcism in Judaism,” Jewish Journal, June 27, 2012.

[9] Beatrice Weinreich, Yiddish Folktales (Yivo Institute, 1988), p. 343.

[10] Isaac Jack Levy and Rosemary Zumwait Levy, Ritual Medical Lore of Sephardic Women: Sweetening the Spirits, Healing the Sick (University of Illinois Press, 2001).

[11] See for example the Jewish Encyclopedia’s article on the practice of wachnacht:

14 thoughts on “Crowding into the Spirit World: Reclaiming a Metaphysics of Multiplicity by Jill Hammer”

  1. I really enjoyed this post, Jill and thank you for including all the interesting references, too. I totally agree with you that modern Jewry, (certainly here in the UK), has that empty space with only G-d in it – and then, only just!

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  2. Hi Jill, I think the issue with your colleagues is that they (and I) do not believe in life in heaven or after death. We may or may not believe in God or Goddess but not in the survival of the individual beyond death. I do not. At the same time, I had a very powerful visitation by my mother about 6 months after her death and another from my 2x great-father a few years ago. Are they living “somewhere” or are the living “in me”? I cannot answer that question, But what I can tell you is that almost every night before I fall asleep and when I wake in the night I say or should I say pray my motherline back to my 5x great-grandmother Marie Dortie Josten born about 1725 in Mecklenburg, Germany and sometimes I also say the names of all 16 of my 2x great-grandparents. This gives me great comfort. Carol PS Last night I asked for their help. And all is well.

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      1. Carol, thank you for your thoughts here. Your words remind me of difference people sometimes encounter between what they believe and what they experience. Sometimes, one shifts the other. I have seen many of my students go through this. I’m glad you checked in with your ancestors and all is well.


    1. If it is not too personal, I would be interested to hear your thoughts on how you view the visitation you experienced since you don’t believe in survival of the individual beyond death. A few years ago I began to adopt a different paradigm wherein I believe in my own experience even when it contradicts what I might logically believe… But I have ebbed and flowed in and out of this paradigm so I am always interested to hear how others handle these things. Your praying your motherline sounds like a beautiful ritual! Maybe I will take that up. ;-)


      1. I believe the ancestors live in us, in our gratitude for their lives and in the ways we can learn for those lives. When the stories move forward, such as when an ancestor says something to us now, I interpret that as coming from the ancestor as she or he lives in me, not from an ancestor living in heaven or somewhere like that.

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  3. Thank you so much for this spirited post, Jill. It makes me feel that Judaism can be alive for me again. I’m currently immersed in translating Egyptian Jewish writer Tobie Nathan’s novel, CE PAYS QUI TE RESSEMBLE – THIS LAND THAT IS LIKE YOU, set in early twentieth-century Cairo. The Jewish and Muslim characters inhabit in a world alive with spirits of all kinds . . . ancestors and demons and guardians; humans, called “children of Adam [and Eve]” in Arabic, are distinguished from all the other beings that fill this teeming and wonderful world.

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  4. Really enjoyed this post as I have been contemplating the Holy Ghosts who visit me on occasion. Just this morning a young boy from the neighborhood killed near our home at 2 years old. Somehow it is both– the singularity and the multiplicity. Our minds do not wrap easily around this nature of reality but our hearts have no problem

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  5. Unfortunately there are many people of many faiths who seem really uncomfortable with the idea that space/time is permeable and that often the spirit world is present for us in ways that are mysterious. I have often wondered why this is so. Are we so severed from Nature that we can no longer read the signs? Have we become so totally disembodied from the spirit world that we cannot even imagine its presence in our lives? A material world that doesn’t include Nature seems to be the only world we can tolerate these days, and it is horrendous.

    Throughout my life I have had literally thousands of experiences when birds or animals appeared to me at the time of someone’s death or birth, and not just theses times but as personal messengers validating my daily experiences. Over the years I have learned to pay close attention to these intersections…and have learned to trust them. So the problem is not with you but with others. All I can say is to continue to believe that Nature is speaking to you through birds animals and the like.

    “Earlier that week, as I was placing a ritual object my father (of blessed memory) had made for the use of the Kohenet community, a crow sat in a nearby tree, calling. There had also been a crow on the day I went to view his body, and also crows came to his funeral. For me, the crow in the tree was my father, making his presence known, watching over me as I did my work. As the crow cawed, I felt much less lonely. In that moment, I was grateful for the multiplicity of my spirit world.”

    The crows are your familiars!

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  6. While I have never astral traveled myself, I know a couple people who have. They would say that, indeed, the “spirit world is populated by many beings of varying levels of benevolence.” I also know people who believe they have communicated with dead people in various ways. So while I cannot speak from experience, if I had to place bets, I would guess there is something to it.

    I love what you said about the individual and personal manifestations of the All. That is also how I view it. Thanks for this article.

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